![]() You don’t want them to write it or say it. What’s more, if you do want your ex back, you don’t want them experiencing themselves rejecting you. My point is, your ex could change their mind in the future, but right now, if he/she is not reaching out to you or directly stating that they want to get back together, you already have their answer. What I am telling you is that if you force your ex to give you an answer right now about whether or not you two will get back together, their answer is likely to be a negative one. That’s because time is part of the recipe. You can’t cook the cake faster by simply turning up the heat. I often use the example of a cake in the oven. What I mean by that is, if you are using the No Contact Rule (or Intelligent Contact Rule if you are married, work together, or have children together), you must first realize that getting your ex back doesn’t happen by flicking a switch. That probably has some appeal to it if you are on my website.Īt the same time, do you really want to force your ex’s hand? To you and your ex getting back together at some point in the future? ![]() If that sounds right to you, I’d ask, an answer to what exactly? ![]() The reason I ask is because I hear all the time about people needing and seeking closure after a breakup, but a lot of people who say they want that don’t know what it is or how to define it.Īccording to Wikipedia: Closure or need for closure are social psychological terms that describe an individual’s desire for a firm answer to a question and an aversion toward ambiguity. What are you wanting to happen by writing a letter to your ex? ![]() Get your ex back with Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit! ![]()
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